”) not only would they let them in the door, sometimes they’d even become regulars of the girl that they had to be browbeaten into seeing in the first place.
The takeaway I got from that is that if it’s not a straight-up fetish, most preferences are pretty flexible and mostly socially constructed.
There were Indian guys whose families wouldn’t let them date outside their race.
(Incidentally, if you can’t or don’t want to work in the sex industry to see this, I recommend looking through Kate Harding’s Illustrated BMI project slideshow)4. A lot of prospective clients when asked what sort of girl they wanted to see would just answer “hot.” Those were the most boring phone calls, and they were usually status-obsessed or simply young.Because my agency was escort only, I only ever spoke to clients on the phone to arrange bookings, so perhaps the distance of the phone line was a factor in having people open up to me.Also, prostitution is both legal and regulated in my state in Australia, so there were no legal issues around the requests anyone was making.The biggest sticklers for size were always douche-y finance types, and for them the looks of the escorts seemed to be more about status then how attracted they were to them personally.A lot of the men who would have no problem with a larger lady on the doorstep would arbitrarily recoil over the phone if you mentioned a clothes size that was in the plus range.